Reclaim Your Space: Decluttering with the Whole Family

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Feeling overwhelmed by the ever-growing piles of stuff in your home? It might be time to grab the family and tackle that clutter together.

Reorganizing and decluttering are challenging when done with others. But making it a shared activity is an enjoyable way to bond with your loved ones while refreshing your living space. The power of an orderly space shouldn’t be underestimated because it can improve your well-being. But where’s that fun if you’re cleaning decluttering alone?

Get your family going and clear up the space through these tips!

Getting The Whole Family Involved

Children can be both a blessing and a challenge regarding clutter. While they accumulate toys and belongings at a rapid rate, getting them involved in the decluttering process can teach essential life skills. Assign tasks that are easy for them to do and make it a collaborative effort to get everyone invested.

When delegating responsibilities, consider each child’s age and abilities. Younger kids can help sort items into “keep,” “donate,” and “trash” piles. At the same time, older children can take on more complex tasks like clearing shelves, wiping down surfaces, and packing up donations. This ensures everyone feels capable of contributing.

Set Clear Goals and Make a Plan

At some point in your life, you might have asked this question: “Why Is My House Always a Mess?”

It could be one of many things, but a dirty house is certainly not good for a family to live in. Before diving in, sit down as a family to discuss your house-cleaning goals.

Do you want to completely overhaul the playroom or focus on streamlining the kitchen junk drawer? Setting clear objectives will help you stay focused and efficient. Then, make a plan of attack—designate zones, set timelines, and delegate responsibilities. Doing so will reset their minds and help them work towards making decluttering with family a habit.

Next, divide the tasks according to each family member’s age, interests, and abilities. Younger kids can focus on sorting and categorizing, while older children and adults tackle more physical or organizational components.

Make Decluttering Fun for The Family

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Decluttering doesn’t have to be a chore. Turn on some upbeat music, provide healthy snacks, and celebrate small victories. Adding games or challenges to keep the kids engaged, like seeing who can sort the most items or create the neatest donation pile.

Turn the decluttering process into a friendly competition or game. Challenge the kids to see who can sort the most items or create the neatest donation pile. Offer small rewards or privileges for the “winners.” This helps engage the children and makes the task feel more like playtime than work.

Get The Kids Involved

Children often have a hard time parting with their belongings. Gently guide them through the process, helping them decide what to keep, donate, or toss. Encourage them to choose their favorite items and let go of things they’ve outgrown. Make it a learning experience about the importance of minimalism and gratitude.

Use the decluttering process as an opportunity to teach your kids about gratitude. Teach them to recognize how they feel when surrounded by too many material things. Moreover, they should be told how they can gain a greater appreciation for the items they keep. This can help build a healthier relationship with material goods.

Refresh and Reorganize

Once you’ve decluttered, it’s time to give your newly cleared spaces a fresh start. Involve the kids in reorganizing, labeling, and styling the areas. This is an excellent opportunity to teach organizational skills and encourage a sense of ownership over their personal spaces.

Decluttering doesn’t mean stripping a space of all personality. Encourage your family to personalize the reorganized areas with artwork, plants, and other decorative touches that reflect their individual styles and interests. This helps the kids feel a sense of ownership over their personal spaces, motivating them to keep things tidy.

Keeping The Momentum

Decluttering is an ongoing process, not a one-time event. Establish new habits and routines to keep the clutter at bay. Schedule regular family cleanout sessions and make it a point to purge, donate, and tidy up regularly.

Additionally, help your children take care of their belongings. Teach them to carefully consider each new item they bring into the home and to regularly evaluate what they truly need and use. Encourage them to practice gratitude for the belongings they keep.

Living The Decluttering Life with Family

When your home is clutter-free, it’s easier to find what you need and complete daily tasks more efficiently. Implementing new organizational systems and routines teaches your kids valuable time management skills that will serve them well.

Nothing beats the feeling that a clean house can bring. Your family can enjoy the benefits of decluttering your home. To learn more about the wonders of decluttering your home, get a copy of Why Is My House Always a Mess? by Joanne Radke.

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Joanne Radke

With over 46 years of experience as a pastor, mentor, counselor, and friend, Joanne Radke has dedicated her life to helping countless individuals find hope and healing. Her deep compassion has led her to serve in six different ministries, including 15 years in children's ministry. Joanne’s impact extends across Canada and around the globe, most notably through her 17-year leadership of the CBA – The 700 Club Canadian prayer center, where she trains and ministers to people daily. Discover more about Joanne's remarkable journey and heart for others.

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